Henry and Richard Blackaby, in their revised and expanded edition of Experiencing God: Knowing and Doing the Will of God, outline seven realities that describe how individuals and churches can experience God and His work. These realities provide a framework for understanding God’s activity and participating in His purposes.

Here are the Seven Realities of Experiencing God:

1. God is always at work around you. This reality emphasizes that God is not distant or inactive, but constantly at work in the world and in the lives of individuals. Experiencing God begins with recognizing and acknowledging His ongoing activity.
2. God pursues a continuing love relationship with you that is real and personal. God desires an intimate and personal relationship with each person. This reality highlights the relational aspect of experiencing God, where He actively seeks to connect with us in a deep and ongoing way.
3. God invites you to become involved with Him in His work. God doesn’t just want us to observe His work; He invites us to participate with Him in accomplishing His purposes. This reality emphasizes that God has a plan, and He often chooses to work through His people.
4. God speaks by the Holy Spirit through the Bible, prayer, circumstances, and the church to reveal Himself, His purposes, and His ways. God communicates with His people in various ways. This reality underscores the importance of listening for His voice through His Word, in prayer, through the events and situations in our lives, and through the community of believers.
5. God’s invitation for you to work with Him always leads you to a crisis of belief that requires faith and action. When God invites us to join Him in His work, it often requires us to step out in faith beyond our comfort zones and natural abilities. This “crisis of belief” demands a decision to trust and obey Him.
6. You must make major adjustments in your life to join God in what He is doing. Responding to God’s invitation and walking in obedience often necessitates changes in our plans, priorities, and even our lifestyles. This reality emphasizes the need for a willingness to adjust our lives to align with God’s will.
7. You come to know God by experience as you obey Him, and He accomplishes His work through you. The deepest knowledge of God comes through firsthand experience as we obey Him. As we step out in faith and allow God to work through us, we see His power and character in new and profound ways.

We need to listen to God for his plans for you, before you plan for God only with your ideas.

Henry Blackaby, particularly through his widely influential work Experiencing God, strongly emphasizes the critical need to listen to God for His plans for you before you create your own plans for God. This core teaching is a foundational aspect of his approach to knowing and doing God’s will.

Here’s a breakdown of how Henry Blackaby initially taught this, based on a significant scipture, “When the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all the truth, for he will not speak on his own authority, but whatever he hears he will speak, and he will declare to you the things that are to come.” John 16:13

• God Takes the Initiative: Blackaby consistently asserts that God is always at work and always takes the initiative in a person’s life. He created us for a love relationship and actively pursues it. Therefore, our role is not to come up with our own grand schemes and then ask God to bless them, but rather to discern what God is already doing and then join Him.
• Focus on God’s Agenda, Not Your Own: A central theme is moving from a “self-centered” life to a “God-centered” one. This means shifting focus from “what do I want to accomplish for God?” to “what is God doing, and how can I join Him?” He argues that people often get busy doing things they think will help God, but if they haven’t first listened, they might be hindering His actual work.
• God Reveals His Will Through Various Means: Blackaby teaches that God communicates His purposes and ways through several channels:
  • The Bible: God’s written Word is a primary source of revelation. (John 16:13)
  • Prayer: This is seen as a two-way conversation where we speak to God and also listen for His response.
  • Circumstances: The events and situations in our lives can be indicators of God’s activity.
  • The Church: God can speak through other believers and the community of faith.
• The “Crisis of Belief”: When God reveals His invitation to join Him, it often leads to a “crisis of belief.” This is a point where one must decide whether to trust and obey God’s revealed plan, even if it seems illogical or requires significant adjustments, rather than clinging to their own pre-conceived notions.
• Adjusting Life to God’s Activity: True discipleship involves making “major adjustments” in one’s life to align with what God is doing. This implies a willingness to alter personal plans, priorities, and even lifestyles in response to God’s leading.
• Knowing God Through Obedience and Experience: Blackaby believes that the deepest understanding of God comes through obeying Him and experiencing Him at work through your life. You don’t fully “know” God by simply having intellectual knowledge about Him; you come to know Him intimately as you step out in faith and see Him accomplish His purposes through you, which stem from His initial revealed plan.

In essence, Blackaby’s teaching is a call to a radical shift in perspective: from planning for God based on our ideas to listening to God for His existing plans and then aligning our lives with them. This necessitates a deep, ongoing relationship with God, characterized by humility, attentiveness, and a readiness to obey.